Finding Joy in Simplicity: Your Guide to a Beautiful Holiday Season

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Many of us look forward to the beauty of the holiday season, which heightens our joy and excitement. However, the season can negatively impact positive emotions if we are anxious and lack enthusiasm. 

Simple Ways to Enjoy The Beauty of the Holiday Season

Marshall Connects blog, Finding Joy in Simplicity: Your Guide to a Beautiful Holiday Season

If you want to get the most out of the holiday season, you may consider learning to control your emotions by observing their effect on you and others.

It makes a difference in our outlook if we stay focused on the positive aspects of the holiday season. Emotion is powerful and can quickly influence our mood and those around us. It's essential to manage them, especially during the holidays, which can be stressful for many.

Prepare For Holiday Emotions In A Positive Way

Over the holidays, many of us have several work and family events that can cause us to feel overwhelmed, tired, and irritable, resulting in situations where we aren't functioning at our best.

Knowing this, we need to prepare ourselves psychologically and emotionally. If you feel this way, you may want to reflect on your emotional contagion and its potential impact on others.

Don't Forget To Laugh And Smile

When you're in a challenging situation or feeling troubled, your negative thoughts can inhibit you from making the necessary rational decisions and reduce the patience required to wait it out.

In these moments, you need a distraction to allow a positive frame of mind to take control or allow time for your rational thoughts to emerge.

A smile will offset a negative emotional state. Laughing and smiling send signals to your brain that you are happy. Once that occurs, the thoughts your mind produces are suddenly positive. Smiling is so powerful it can make you forget what is upsetting you. By the time you remember the upsetting situation, your brain has a different point of view towards it.

This strategy is relatively simple but can also be very effective when you don't have time to deal with the situation and need to be upbeat and engaging for your next family visit (during the holidays) or meeting if you are at work.

How To Observe The Ripple Effect Of Our Emotions Throughout The Holidays

To understand your emotions' impact on others, you must first practice observing them.

Over the holidays, when you're interacting with a group of colleagues, friends, or family members, and you're sharing information using uncontrolled emotions, try exercising the following:

  1. Examine your audience's facial expression and body language immediately after you finish speaking.
  2. Consider how your emotions affect the individuals around you.
  3.  Did others give you eye contact to support what you were saying, or did they look away when you finished speaking?
  4. Write down how your uncontrolled emotions affected those around you.
  5. Consider how you could share the information differently if you controlled your emotions better.
  6. Select one or two people who observed your behaviour and privately ask them how it affected them.
  7. Continue to monitor how your emotions affect others.

Practicing this exercise will help you become more aware of your emotions and emotional contagion. It will help you better observe and manage the ripple effect emotions can have throughout the holidays and into the New Year.

This holiday season, I encourage you to learn more about your emotions and how to manage them, as it will strengthen your emotional intelligence and positively affect your life, which is the best gift you could give yourself! If you’re looking for a valuable present for someone special, including yourself, consider my book, The Power of Emotion. It is a gift that will keep on giving!

This article was originally published on December 14, 2019, and has been updated (October 2023).

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