One frame of
reference, limits our problem solving ability.
Life happens, and we find ourselves solving problems on a regular basis. Our brains are constantly working overtime. Sometimes the answers to problems are relatively simple and come to us quickly. However, there are other times when we require someone to help us work through a situation objectively.
Sharing your feelings with another person about a situation that you find challenging and emotional can provide great
The key is to find the best person to share your problem with.
Ideally, you want to take advantage of a point of view from someone who cares about
When you are involved in a challenging situation and you need a second opinion, make sure you choose someone who:
- You trust
- You feel comfortable talking to
- Is not personally affected by your situation
- Is a good listener
- Is a rational thinker.
Make sure you talk to this individual openly and share all of the details as you know them, remaining as objective as possible. Sharing both the facts, and your thoughts and feelings with a trusted advisor will most times